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“The greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of the parent.”

Carl Jung

YOU ARE AT THE RIGHT PLACE

IF THIS FEELS FAMILIAR

Work-Life Imbalance

Dads often feel torn between career demands and the desire to be present at home. Employers might expect us to "bounce back" quickly, while emotionally, we are still reeling from the shift into parenthood and all the rollercoasters that come with that. That tug-of-war between the office and the crib leaves many of us feeling like we are failing at both big time.

Role Identity Issues

Fatherhood cracks open your identity. For many men, stepping into the role of “dad” means letting go of who they were—and often, that change happens without time to process it. There’s a pressure to suddenly be the perfect provider, partner, and protector. But when the new role doesn't come with guidance or validation, it can feel like free-falling through an identity crisis.

Unresolved Mental Health Issues

If a man walks into fatherhood with untreated anxiety, depression, trauma, or addiction, the intensity of parenting can bring all of it to the surface. Old wounds resurface, and new pressures pile on. Without the right tools or support, those internal struggles can spiral. And the longer we pretend that everything is all right the harder it actually gets to opt out again.

Paternal Postnatal Depression (PPND)

Just like mothers, fathers can experience a form of postpartum depression. PPND affects between 7–11% of dads and is often overlooked, underdiagnosed, or flat-out ignored. It can show up as irritability, withdrawal, numbness, or anger—emotional expressions that often mask deeper pain. Contributing factors include hormonal changes, lack of sleep, and the sudden, overwhelming weight of new responsibility.

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We don’t hear much about fathers and depression. That silence isn’t accidental. While support systems have (rightly) centered on mothers for decades, the emotional terrain of fatherhood has stayed mostly in the shadows.

But the truth is: fathers hurt too. We grieve, struggle, shut down, isolate—and we’re expected to do it quietly."

 

Fatherhood is a profound transformation, and for many men, it shakes the ground beneath their feet. Understanding what causes depression in fathers isn't about comparing pain—it's about creating space for healing. When we know where the pressure points are, we can finally start shifting them.

Unnoticed. Silently. Invisible.
Why So Many Dads Are Struggling

Facing the Silent Crisis

Fathers in Separation and Divorce

Recent studies show a systemic disadvantage for fathers: only 17 % of custodial parents are fathers, and in contested cases, only 1 in 7 receive joint custody. Parental alienation is common—affecting 25–33 % of disputes—and thousands of children lose regular contact with their fathers each month. The emotional toll on fathers is severe. Divorced men face an eightfold higher suicide risk compared to divorced women, and single fathers die at three times the rate of single mothers. About one in ten new fathers experience postpartum depression, yet lack access to screening or mental‑health services. Research shows symptoms are often misinterpreted or ignored by healthcare and legal professionals. Cultural norms around masculinity—emotional restraint, financial focus, stoic resilience—deepen the crisis. Men who live up to these ideals are often the least supported when in pain. The result? A chain of trauma rippling across generations—children growing up with absent fathers, emotional scars that echo through families and culture. This is the unspoken crisis of modern fatherhood.

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ISOLATION

Becoming a dad can be deeply isolating—especially when your own emotional world gets sidelined. Society often tells men to “man up,” “be strong,” or “handle it.”

 

But trying to parent from a place of emotional suppression only compounds the loneliness. And most dads don’t feel like they have a safe space to talk about what's really going on.

 

Silence becomes the standard—and that’s where suffering festers and unfolds as anti-manifestation due to a devastating spiral of negative thoughts and emotions.

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WHY SHIVA SHIFT

A Holistic Approach to Fatherhood, Well-Being & Community

At SHIVA SHIFT, we embrace a holistic approach to fatherhood, well-being, and personal growth. Our program is uniquely designed to empower fathers through a combination of holistic practices, supportive community, and transformative experiences. We are committed to redefining fatherhood and promoting holistic wellness and the power of community support.

If you’d like to get more information about our offers and features, get in touch today.

THE VISION

Imagine a life where you face all challenges with mental strength & emotional resilience.

Shiva Shift is not just about physical transformation; it is rather a journey into the depths of your being. Through mindfully guided yoga sessions, breath work, meditation, and somatic exercises, you will reconnect with your inner self and cultivate a life of balance and fulfilment.

 

This program is a harmonious blend of ancient teachings and modern techniques, crafted to nurture your mind, body, and spirit.

 

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WELCOME TO
YOUR NEW LIFE

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Reach out to us for holistic healing services that nurture your mind, body, and soul.
 

Let SHIVA SHIFT guide you on your journey from moments of darkness to a brighter future.

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